Jessie J Opens Up About Going Back To Work After A Miscarriage


After discovering she had suffered a miscarriage, UK singer Jessie J decided to go ahead with her concert as planned but now, she’s opening up about what it was really like…



The two-hour intimate gig took place in LA the day after Jessie took to Instagram to share the devastating news just hours after she tragically lost her baby.



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In her post, the singer reassured fans that she would take to the stage to help her own grieving process: ‘I may regret posting this. I may not. I actually don’t know’, she wrote, ‘What I do know is that I want to sing tonight. Not because I’m avoiding the grief or the process, but because I know singing tonight will help me.’.



Now, she’s updating her fans on how she went into ‘work mode’ shortly after hearing the news. ‘I posted about losing my baby just hours after I was told. I reacted in work mode. It’s safe to say I sometimes pour more energy into creating an unhealthy process of my own pain in front of a camera, than I do acknowledging it behind one in real time’, she explained.


Jessie J revealed to fans last month she had suffered a miscarriage (Credit: Jessie J/Instagram)


‘‘The show must go on’ mentality reacted before the human in me did.’, the singer admitted. ‘I must turn this into an inspirational, I know I will be ok, strong moment, because that’s who I am right? Truth is, I just needed to f*cking cry and fall into someone’s arms and sob. But at the time I was alone. I hadn’t processed anything.’.



Nor did I have any idea what I was about to go through not just emotionally but physically after this show.’, she continued.


Jessie J thanked her fans on Instagram for their support (Jessie J/Instagram)


Jessie J went on to acknowledge why she feels it’s crucial for women to keep opening up about their miscarriage experiences, saying that losing a child is ‘one of the worst feelings in the world’. ‘I guess I’m here to say to anyone who may not have been told this, you are allowed to be broken. You are allowed to cry. Allowed to be weak. Allowed to be exhausted from the pain and the bleeding and the grief that barely has space to exist’, she remarked.



You are allowed to do this however YOU need to. Sometimes life just calls us to be human. We know there will be sunshine, but we can’t avoid the rain.’.

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